SEXY CONTENT CREATION PARTY hosted by Jon & Ree Calling all Couples, Individuals, & Content Creators... DETAILS Use our sexy play rooms & areas to capture your boudoir, kink, & sexy pictures! BYOC aka bring your own cameras & camera phones ! We will have some ring lights available to use. It's BYOB !Weprovide mixers. Please remember to show your appreciation by tipping our sexy & savvy bartender! We will also have the lovely Jon as our HOB Photographer for a portion of the event . He will only photograph you at your request and with your consent. *Please tip our photographer via their preferred electronic form of payment.* PLEASE NOTE: This is a party where play may be happening and does allow the option of taking pictures but only of yourself & those you have direct consent from!! DOORS CLOSE AT10PM No In & Out Privileges After 10PM. NO EXCEPTIONS. Arrive on time or no entry, we do not refund for late attendance or not showing up. **Membership is required due to legal rules in the state of California for events of this nature.** Don't forget to share the sexy p hotos you take with us on Social Media by tagging us at... IG : @HouseofBlackSD | Twitter : @HouseofBlackSD | Fetlife : @HouseofBlack | Member.HouseofBlack.com Newsfeed Use hashtag #HOBcontentcreation CONSENT, RESPECT, & AN OPEN MIND ARE KEY AT HOUSE OF BLACK Yes is a Yes , NO is a NO , Maybe is a NO , if someone changes their mind they will let you know! Please make sure to give a CLEAR VERBAL NO when you do NOT want to do something with someone. Please give people, their scenes, and their things space , respect the ambience of the play areas, keep your socializing in the social area & the sexy play in the play areas! There are many different types of people, dynamics, genders, and styles of play at HoB, don't yuck anyone else's yum ! Our Staff is available to make sure you feel safe so please don't hesitate to use them as a resource. **Membership is required due to legal rules in the state of California for events of this nature.** WHAT IS HOUSE OF BLACK? House of Black isowned by Goddess Fae Black , a female bi-sexual LS Kinkster who has a passion for providing a sexy space for people to indulge in their fantasies! We have several volunteer staff members and are always looking for more people who want to get involved in our member community. House of Black is a M embers Lifestyle & Kink Club which features 7 uniquely styled rooms , a lounge area, 2 bathrooms (w/shower), and a large private outdoor balcony. We host sex positive parties, workshops, discussion groups, game nights & more! House of Black is also availble for Rentals ...It is also available for rent for your own private playtime or sexy photoshoot . CONTACT US Email: [email protected] if you'd like to hear more about volunteering or have any questions. Rentals: Please text 8587519433 the following info: First & Last Name if each individual that will be included in the rental? (We do check ID at the door, names must match ID, must be 21+) Date, Start Time, & How Many Hours? Which Room(s) or Whole Facility? What is the Purpose of Your Rental? How did you hear about House of Black? XO ,

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HoB Meet & Greet @ KILOWATT BREWERY-KEARNEY MESA
HoB Meet & Greet @ KILOWATT BREWERY-KEARNEY MESA
Wed, Mar 4, 2026
San Diego, CA
First meet & greet of 2026 is going to be WED March 4th from 6-9 at Kilowatt Brewery - Kearny Mesa / 7576 Clairemont Mesa Blvd, San Diego Check out their website www.kilowatt.beer (it is correct) for menu and a link to their speak easy, Forbidden Cove!!! We are going to be rotating the locations eac
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Traffic Light Party
Traffic Light Party
Fri, Mar 6, 2026
San Diego, CA
TRAFFIC LIGHT PARTY Ready, Set, Go! You will select a Wristband (provided by HOB!) a ccording to the type of play you are open to... RED - Voyuer YELLOW - Soft Swap GREEN - Full Swap BLACK - KINK/BDSM WHITE -Exploring Then pick a Wristband (provided by HOB!) According to what Gender You Are Wanting
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A Black Tie Affair
A Black Tie Affair
Wed, Mar 11, 2026
San Diego, CA
A BLACK TIE AFFAIR A Rope Practice Hosted by: Shel Educators: Talented Mr Jay & bunny Black Tie Affiar is a skills-based class designed for all levels on a rotating basis. Whether you're a beginner or an intermediate, everyone can sharpen their technique. The evening includes a short intro on consen
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Ethical Non-Monogamy Discussion Group
Ethical Non-Monogamy Discussion Group
Mon, Mar 16, 2026
San Diego, CA
CONSENSUAL NON-MONOGAMY DISCUSSION GROUP ABOUT THE GROUP This discussion group is open to anyone who is curious about or already active in a consensual non-monogamous (CNM) lifestyle including open relationships, swinging, multiple D/s dynamics, and polyamory (hierarchical, non-hierarchical, solo po
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KINK LAB - TOPIC: Impact
KINK LAB - TOPIC: Impact
Mon, Mar 23, 2026
San Diego, CA
KINK LAB hosted by Shel Guest Educator FlogAndFlow THIS MONTH'S TOPIC Impact Play Learn more about impact and flogging. More to come Instructor description: tbd Schedule of the Evening... 7:00PM: Arrive, put your stuff in a locker, check in with greeter for next steps 7:30PM: DO ORS CLOSE AT7:30PM.
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Sexy Content Creation Party
Sexy Content Creation Party
Wed, Mar 25, 2026
San Diego, CA
SEXY CONTENT CREATION PARTY hosted by Ree Calling all Couples, Individuals, & Content Creators... DETAILS Use our sexy play rooms & areas to capture your boudoir, kink, & sexy pictures! BYOC aka bring your own cameras & camera phones ! We will have some ring lights available to use. It's BYOB !Wepro
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BDSM NIGHT
BDSM NIGHT
Fri, Mar 27, 2026
San Diego, CA
BDSM NIGHT A NIGHT OF BDSM, FETISHES, & KINK SCENES WHAT CAN WE DO??? Mingle with one another in our LOUNGE AREA & on our PATIO Enact YOUR SCENES in our many kinky themed PLAY areas Decadent HORS D'OEUVRES will be provided to keep your energy up throughout the evening WHAT DO WE WEAR?!? Dress to imp
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HoB Meet & Greet @ KILOWATT BREWERY - OCEAN BEACH
HoB Meet & Greet @ KILOWATT BREWERY - OCEAN BEACH
Wed, Apr 1, 2026
San Diego, CA
Want to meet other like-minded individuals, learn more about House of Black & More, & have a good night out? Come Join Us for this Month's Meet n Greet at Kilowatt Ocean Beach Location! Come Meet and Mingle with Potential and Regular HOB Members alike. Socialize, connect, and make new friends and/or
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Ethical Non-Monogamy Discussion Group
Ethical Non-Monogamy Discussion Group
Mon, Apr 20, 2026
San Diego, CA
TODAYS TOPIC ENM & Mental Health: Your Brain on Desire Brains are the biggest erogenous zone. Let's talk about what happens when pleasure meets pressure. We chase connection, compersion, and chemistrybut sometimes our heads get in the way. Abandonment fears, attachment wounds, therapy breakthroughs,
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Sexy Content Creation Party
Sexy Content Creation Party
Wed, Apr 22, 2026
San Diego, CA
SEXY CONTENT CREATION PARTY hosted by Jon & Ree Calling all Couples, Individuals, & Content Creators... DETAILS Use our sexy play rooms & areas to capture your boudoir, kink, & sexy pictures! BYOC aka bring your own cameras & camera phones ! We will have some ring lights available to use. It's BYOB
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BDSM NIGHT - CARNAL CIRCUS
BDSM NIGHT - CARNAL CIRCUS
Fri, Apr 24, 2026
San Diego, CA
BDSM NIGHT - CARNAL CIRCUS A special celebration in honor of our stunning hostess, AJ! Step right up, daring souls! Prepare for a night of unbridled fantasy. On 4/24, our big top of pleasure becomes a playground for the bold and the beautiful, blending the mischievous spirit of the carnival with the
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Traffic Light Party
Traffic Light Party
Fri, May 1, 2026
San Diego, CA
TRAFFIC LIGHT PARTY Ready, Set, Go! You will select a Wristband (provided by HOB!) a ccording to the type of play you are open to... RED - Voyuer YELLOW - Soft Swap GREEN - Full Swap BLACK - KINK/BDSM WHITE -Exploring Then pick a Wristband (provided by HOB!) According to what Gender You Are Wanting
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HoB Meet & Greet @ KILOWATT BREWERY - OCEANSIDE
HoB Meet & Greet @ KILOWATT BREWERY - OCEANSIDE
Wed, May 6, 2026
Oceanside, CA
Want to meet other like-minded individuals, learn more about House of Black & More, & have a good night out? Come Join Us for this Month's Meet n Greet at Kilowatt Oceanside Location! Come Meet and Mingle with Potential and Regular HOB Members alike. Socialize, connect, and make new friends and/or p
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A Black Tie Affair - A Night of Rope Education
A Black Tie Affair - A Night of Rope Education
Wed, May 13, 2026
San Diego, CA
A BLACK TIE AFFAIR A Rope Practice Hosted by: Shel Educators: Talented Mr Jay & bunny Black Tie Affiar is a skills-based class designed for all levels on a rotating basis. Whether you're a beginner or an intermediate, everyone can sharpen their technique. The evening includes a short intro on consen
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Consensual Non-Monogamy Discussion Group
Consensual Non-Monogamy Discussion Group
Mon, May 18, 2026
CONSENSUAL NON-MONOGAMY DISCUSSION GROUP ABOUT THE GROUP This discussion group is open to anyone who is curious about or already active in a consensual non-monogamous (CNM) lifestyle including open relationships, swinging, multiple D/s dynamics, and polyamory (hierarchical, non-hierarchical, solo po
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BDSM NIGHT
BDSM NIGHT
Fri, May 22, 2026
BDSM NIGHT A NIGHT OF BDSM, FETISHES, & KINK SCENES WHAT CAN WE DO??? Mingle with one another in our LOUNGE AREA & on our PATIO Enact YOUR SCENES in our many kinky themed PLAY areas Decadent HORS D'OEUVRES will be provided to keep your energy up throughout the evening WHAT DO WE WEAR?!? Dress to imp
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KINKED - TOPIC: TBD
KINKED - TOPIC: TBD
Tue, May 26, 2026
San Diego, CA
KINK ED hosted by Shel THIS MONTH'S TOPIC TBD Schedule of the Evening... 7:00PM: Arrive, put your stuff in a locker, check in with greeter for next steps 7:30PM: DO ORS CLOSE AT7:30PM. No In & Out Priveleges After 7:30PM. 7:30-10 PM: Discussions, Demo, Workshop 10PM-11:00PM: Open Practice Portion **
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Sexy Content Creation Party
Sexy Content Creation Party
Wed, May 27, 2026
San Diego, CA
SEXY CONTENT CREATION PARTY hosted by Ree Calling all Couples, Individuals, & Content Creators... DETAILS Use our sexy play rooms & areas to capture your boudoir, kink, & sexy pictures! BYOC aka bring your own cameras & camera phones ! We will have some ring lights available to use. It's BYOB !Wepro

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