Spokane’s Swingers Lifestyle community for couples and single women ready to explore, connect, and have fun.
Since 2018, we’ve built a welcoming, respectful space where 18+ adults can meet new people, attend incredible events, and experience the Lifestyle without pressure or judgment.
The website is for 18+ adults. All in person events are 21+ due to alcohol being present.
Who Is Ellis?
“Ellis” is a clever nod to L.S. — the LifeStyle.
If you’re a Friend of Ellis, you’re in the circle.
What We Do
Friends of Ellis brings the Inland Northwest together through:
Meet & Greets
Themed Parties
Hotel Takeovers
Campouts and outdoor events
Workshops, education, and safety guides
Private members-only gatherings
Every event is designed to help you connect at your comfort level, whether you’re dipping your toes in for the first time or you’ve been Swinging for years.
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Mar 20, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
March Club Party
Sat, Mar 21, 2026
Party Theme: Spring Tease Show a Little Skin Winter is fading, temperatures are rising, and instincts are starting to wake up. March is the month where you flirt with the weather and with each other. This theme is all about the tease a little covered, a little exposed, a little did you just see that
Friends of Ellis
The Golden Age of Seduction
Fri, Apr 17, 2026
THE GOLDEN AGE OF SEDUCTION Step back into the late 70s, a time when nightlife was electric, velvet ruled the room, secrets lived behind half-closed doors, and the most unforgettable stories began after dark. This spring, Friends of Ellis returns with an all-new signature hotel takeover: Two full ni
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Apr 17, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, May 15, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
May Club Party
Sat, May 16, 2026
Party Theme: Voyeur & Exhibitionist Night Step Into the Shadows or Shine in the Spotlight Are you the type who loves watching desire unfold from the shadows? Or does the heat build when eyes are on you? This month, Friends of Ellis brings you a night dedicated to two of the lifestyles most thrilling
Friends of Ellis
Summer Campout Early
Fri, Jun 19, 2026
Friends of Ellis Late Early: The Ultimate Outdoor Adventure Escape to the wild side with Friends of Ellis for our Early Campout! Just one hour north of Spokane, this weekend getaway is packed with playful adventure, connection, and sexy summer energywhether you're staying all weekend or just droppin
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Jun 19, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Jul 17, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Aug 21, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
Summer Campout Late
Fri, Aug 21, 2026
Friends of Ellis Late Late: The Ultimate Outdoor Adventure Escape to the wild side with Friends of Ellis for our Late Campout! Just one hour north of Spokane, this weekend getaway is packed with playful adventure, connection, and sexy summer energywhether you're staying all weekend or just dropping
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Sep 18, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Oct 16, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Nov 20, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Dec 18, 2026
Spokane, WA
FoE White Elephant: Naughty or Nice Edition Its December lets unwrap some trouble. This month were spicing up the Meet & Greet with a White Elephant gift exchange. Think fun, flirty, playful, and something youd actually be happy to steal from somebody. $30-ish is the sweet spot for individuals and $
The Melting Pot For Adult Fun
Luxury and Lust Thailand Tour
Fri, Jun 12, 2026
bangkok, bangkok
JUNE 2026: THE THRILL OF A LIFETIME! Dates: June 12th 20th, 2026 Location: Pattaya & Bangkok, Thailand Vibe: Affordable. Epic. Unforgettable. PHASE 1: PATTAYA THE LEGEND BEGINS Basecamp: LK Residence Friday, June 12th: The Kickoff Day: Arrival & Pool Party. Touch down, drop your bags at LK Residence
Bliss Cruise
November 09 - 16, 2026
Mon, Nov 9, 2026
MIAMI, FL
Apparently, size does matter!! Due to overwhelming demand, we will be sailing on the Wonder of the Seas for our November 2026 cruise. We will start in sunny Miami, Florida and sail to Oranjestad, Aruba & Willemstad, Curacao. Each day and night brings something new to do, see and explore in one o
The Melting Pot For Adult Fun
Sinful Nights
Thu, Aug 20, 2026
Las Vegas, NV
MP4AF Takes Over Las Vegas August 2023 | Sin City, Turned All the Way Up Pack your sexiest fits and your boldest intentionsMP4AF is heading to Las Vegas for four decadent days where flirtation flows, chemistry ignites, and every night promises something unforgettable. This isnt just a trip its an ex
Bliss Cruise
February 24 – 28, 2027
Wed, Feb 24, 2027
TAMPA, FL
Bliss Cruise is sailing from Tampa for the very first time, opening exciting new possibilities for your clients! This 4-night teaser cruise continues our successful February tradition — the perfect introduction to the Bliss lifestyle or a spicy short getaway for our loyal return guests. We will be a
Bliss Cruise
April 18 – 24, 2027
Sun, Apr 18, 2027
FORT LAUDERDALE, FL
6-Night Charter | Round-trip from Fort Lauderdale, FLPorts of Call: Cabo Rojo, Dominican Republic & LabadeeThis 6-night sailing is full of “firsts” too — it features a new Bliss destination: Cabo Rojo, a beautiful and exotic port in the Dominican Republic, plus a return to the private beach para
Bliss Cruise
Bliss Mardi Gras Cruise
Sat, Feb 19, 2028
New Orleans, LA
Step aboard the ultimate Mardi Gras Cruise, setting sail from the vibrant and captivating city of New Orleans. This exclusive, couples-only voyage is your ticket to an unforgettable celebration of life, love, and sensuality. Imagine yourself amidst the electrifying atmosphere of one of the world's m